How to stop overthinking your life, make peace with uncertainty, and enjoy the days you actually have.
You've probably tried to fix your overthinking already — the apps, the routines, the books that promise calm in ten steps.
This one takes a different route: borrowing the best idea Albert Camus ever had (minus the cigarettes and most of the despair), it makes the funny, friendly case that peace doesn't require fixing everything first.
Get it on Amazon — $2.99 Read the essays"Most of what is exhausting about the boulder isn't the boulder. It's the commentary."— from The Relaxed Absurdist
Why your brain keeps auditing your life — and simple, funny ways to come back to the day in front of you.
Camus's boulder, minus the despair: let plans wobble without treating every unknown as an emergency.
Small, practical shifts — unhurried dinners, phone-free walks — that turn ordinary time back into your life.
Cole Fenner writes about the gap between the life we plan and the life that actually shows up — and why that gap is funnier, and friendlier, than it looks. The Relaxed Absurdist is his first book. He is probably not overthinking this bio. Probably.